BEGGARS AND CHOOSERS 2
Yesterday, I tried to explain that if your tribe doesn’t return your loyalty, you need to drop your fealty to them. Your nation state that you made your tribe ( not that you had a choice, but forget that for now ) has failed you for some time. The implicit understanding was that you support and take a chance of dying for the state and they attempt to defend you ( even if that is just a byproduct of defending themselves ). Your loyalty for theirs.
Now, no one expects great things from an over centralized government. They are rather inept. The end result is not what is measured, but rather their attempts at upholding their end of the bargain. Which, nowadays, they make ZERO attempt at doing. If you allow Muslim immigrants, you can’t claim you are trying to keep citizens from being harmed by terrorists. If you do not hold police accountable for their actions, you can’t claim that force is there to defend you. When you are jailed for smoking a joint but the pharmaceutical company is excused for killing thousands after pushing poisonous products, you cannot claim any impartiality with justice.
I could go on and on, but I believe you can see my point. You are no longer getting loyalty back from your tribal leaders-they are merely using you for profit and your health be damned. And you cannot rationally make an argument that there is any recourse anymore outside revolution ( I’m not getting into a deep political dissection here, merely looking at this from a profit/loss view ). And, need I remind you, I do NOT advocate revolution. I never have. It is a suckers game ( far too many militia provocateurs feel fine riling you up and getting YOU to fight as they merely pontificate ). I merely implore you to think clearly.
Withdraw your loyalty. Plan on founding your own tribe. I think we can all agree on that. However, now the rubber meets the road. Founding a tribe is a bitch ( founding/joining-they both involve the same risks ). The attrition rate has got to rival post-colonial African country founding. Being born into a tribe, you just live by the rules already proven to work. But getting a bunch of worthless mouth breathers to find those rules? Every tribe is different because all of them adapt to local circumstances. And if your tribe is defeated and you must relocate, then the process starts again ( although at least then you’ve already established trust and loyalty so it will at least be easier ).
Not only is there the process of finding new rules ( adaptations ), every one is forced to un-learn the old ones from the old tribe. Now, I’m not saying this is impossible. It is actually very easy in concept if not implementation. Us good, Them bad. How hard is that to understand? It is a simple binary choice that the most brain dead Special Ed kid can understand. That is why it works so well. You don’t stop and ponder. Well, it’s a cute baby, or, he looks harmless. No, wrong answer. It is Them. They are ALWAYS bad. Your tribe, treat fairly, morally and respectfully. That Other tribe? Kill, enslave, ignore-your choice. But never treat them like Your tribe.
The problem only is a problem if there isn’t the commitment to change alliances. The real problems, otherwise, are the adaptations. If you had to leave the jungle for the desert, you couldn’t keep eating pigs. If most of the men were killed in a war, marriage rules would have to change to allow polygamy. But for us, now? We must learn to stop treating the nation state and all its institutions as our tribe. If you can’t do that, you obviously can’t transfer allegiance. Look at Blacks. Do you think they give a crap about doing well in school, getting a job, staying off welfare?
No. And if you even think it is because they are lazy or stupid, you need to bitch slap yourself. Anyone can be stupid and lazy. It is their tribal members job to modify that behavior. Not those from another tribe ( and to be clear, Blacks are not a unified Tribe. That is why you see so much Black On Black crime [ just like you used to see Black On Black warfare to get prisoners to sell to White slave traders ]. I’m taking a semantic shortcut here speaking in generalities pointing out our racial issues ). When some pasty Honkie dude calls all Blacks lazy, he is trying to judge another tribe by his own tribes rules.
But, back to the initial tribal formation. As I said in the beginning, if you are begging or trying to bribe your initial members, you are going to get members you certainly do NOT want. You are in a position of weakness and they will take advantage of you. And not only that, you set the tribe up for failure in the long term. Loyalty must be a two way street. Those joining under a superiority complex will never be loyal to you. Okay, think of it this way. What have I told you about attracting females? If you Need, you Bleed.
If you are needy, you are NOT attractive to any quality mate. You will certainly attract the Users. And those relationships are doomed to failure. If you are in one, get out now, while the cost is low. Trust me. Females are HAL computers. They never forget anything. You are already labeled and if it isn’t a positive label, you will be forever more treated like runny crap. The exact same with forming a tribe. If individuals need to join you, the relationship will work. If the tribe needs an individual, it will not. The initial dynamic will never change.
If your wife is a ball busting whore with no loyalty because you are spineless and weak and deserve none, you MIGHT salvage that relationship. I don’t know. She could be craving you to Man Up and welcome your new persona. But do NOT expect that to work in a group setting. The imprinting personality will only be changed by brute force there. Again, it is possible. But is it desirable? Do you want to fight to get a members loyalty? You want to worry about someone’s loyalty or effort in the middle of a war ( and the Die-Off will be a war, followed by never ending wars tribe on tribe after that )?
We’ll finish up tomorrow.
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If you are needy and don't have the experience to deal with it your situation appears obvious to others and that isn't attractive. Predators are drawn to you. NEVER let them see you sweat and NEVER beg. EVER, no matter how dire your situation. Cool as a cucumber is the rule of the day and forever. Compartmentalize your situation DEEP inside yourself and pretend openly that everything is just peachy. An optimistic attitude projected 360 degrees attracts positive ions from every where. Be up-beat at all times and friendly to all.ReplyDelete
Think. When you have a mate you are no longer available to the remainders and thus are more attractive to them. If you don't have a mate but come across like you are desperate they will flee you. The longer you do with out the more desperate you become. It starts and ends with you. Fix you and all the other stuff starts to fall into place. Never "need" anything, but "want" everything.
I have learned well to trust in the LOL's judgement of character. So far she has never proved to be wrong about such things.ReplyDelete
The whole MGTOW movement misses a very important point. Gals got your back. Finding the right one is a challenge of course. Women are SOOOO much better at relationship dynamics. Guys are certainly not. The women watching your six will sniff out intrigue and political movements far before you have clue one. Trust their judgements about other people.Delete
Got Wheat Berries and junk land? https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/democracy-post/wp/2018/01/17/in-venezuela-money-has-stopped-working/?utm_term=.276c73809fceReplyDelete
Well, at least they didn't blame socialism and call for rich corporations to pay less tax for trickle down. Of course, they had to mention Forrest Trump-MSM requirement to operate.Delete
"and to be clear, Blacks are not a unified Tribe”ReplyDelete
True to a point. But come election time they all unify together long enough to stick it to evil whitey!
“And if you even think it is because they are lazy or stupid, you need to bitch slap yourself.”
Ahh, that reminds me of a recent situation. Robotic farmhands were incorporated to work the fields at a large farm adjoining one of the major interstates nearby. The robots were rather reflective, and this resulted in a distraction for the motorists, resulting in more than a few collisions. So they painted them all black as to cut down on the reflection……..
And the following day only half of them showed up for work :D
Okay, that's funny! I don't care who you are.Delete