URBAN CATTLE
What makes the city so
attractive to so many people? It isn't just the availability of
jobs. People in small towns have connections, built over a lifetime,
and while there isn't the same kind of job market as the city they
know people who know people who can get them some kind of work. Even
if there is a long commute, the low cost of living compared to the
urban hive pays for that commute. Even if it is local and part time,
they can survive on that, also. If they want to. Something attracts
people to the city, besides work.
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I'm not necessarily
speaking of those born in the city, who have connections there also.
In that case, only knowing the concrete jungle probably means you
wouldn't be attracted to real vegetation and wildlife, far out of
your comfort zone. You don't hear about all that many folks leaving
the city ( not lifelong urban dwellers ) as compared to those
attracted to them. Not the job aspect, as much as the lifestyle or
cultural difference. They don't like fellow small town folks in
their business, gossiping about them. They want a “wordly”
education.
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They want excitement.
Now, to be clear, I've lived in small towns growing up, mostly
outside of that small town in the boonies. I only lived in the
bigger cities for about ten years, chasing enough dollars to pay off
Bitch From Hell Baby Momma. I'm prejudice against larger cities,
seeing only teeming crowds, hostile “OH-pressed minorities”,
stink and rudeness. To me, what city folk want is silly, and
pointless. But I'm trying to be as neutral as possible here as I
strive to understand these people. Me? I've thought the smaller the
town, the more secure. Others must chaff under the microscope.
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I can see how some
people just want to be left alone. I see friends and surrogate
family ( or just family ) providing a safety net for you, in a small
town. They might know everything about you, know everything you do,
but they also know all that and so can protect you. You are one of
them. And the folks they don't know, they all watch very carefully.
You are protected by the group, and from those NOT of the group.
Yet, some people don't like that. It feels smothering rather than
protective.
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And what does the city
offer them? The glorious chance to be left the hell alone, without
the need to be a hermit. We are social animals. We need a herd,
most of us. Some can get that visiting others daily, others want to
leave well enough alone with a once a month visit. City folks would
not make good hermits. They want MORE solitude, but it isn't from
hating and avoiding people. It is under their control, and they can
adjust as needed. To them, solitude is needed in hourly rather than
weekly amounts.
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We all need both other
people and a respite from them. Some people are such extroverts they
need people even as they fled from them, but those are some weird
bastards. They are deathly afraid of being AWAY from people. How
natural is that? But, anyway, the main attraction of the city (
again, culturally and psychologically, leaving the employment
question aside ) is that you can still socialize, but without those
other people being so far up your ass you can't feel free to be your
own person, or do your own thing.
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You feel unjust
expectations to perform to other people's standards, in a small town.
And sometimes you just hated some people so much that just being in
the same town as them gave you anxiety every time you went out (
think, ex-spouses for instance ). What if the cool kids harassed you
all through school? Would you want to continue living in a small
town with them your whole life? The only gratification to you would
be when their beauty faded or their muscles atrophied and they lost
what they relied on to be special. But that would be small comfort.
Sometimes, people who want to ignore you are the best company.
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To accept the shallow
social existence of the city, surrounded by people but always alone,
friendships more like acquaintances, you really have to hate small
towns. This new reality is better than the old one. Neither was
good, this one is just less worse. And I think I would include most
suburbs in this analysis, now so crowded that they feel just like a
city. Not as bad, obviously. You don't have Tyrone and his
disadvantaged youth friends asking for a reparations tax, at
gunpoint. The suburbs are even more alienating and lonely than the
city, with no social venues.
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But the suburbs are
just that much less dangerous to be more attractive than they should
be. That is one thing Kunstler doesn't dare touch on. One of the
main reasons people move to a home that offers no socialization, no
nearby services and requires an unnatural dependence on the
automobile is because men don't want their wives to be raped by
OtherColors in the city, and their children to be jumped by gangs in
the schools. That is all on his beloved Democrat party. Republicans
screwed us on Jobs To Latino's ( and overseas Asians ), but Democrats
made our country unsafe.
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This is a huge reason
for recommending the countryside over the city for a retreat,
although that is a subject I'm slowly moving my way forward to.
Right now, it is important to understand why so many people WANT, not
just need, but desire, to move to and/or stay in the city. Not just
jobs, not just the insecurity of moving in this era of high
unemployment ( The Donald, who never met a poor person he had a
problem lying to to make money, tells you unemployment is 4%. The
Shadow Stats guy says 20%. I say 38%, but a lot of those folks are
in the black market or on welfare. Splitting the difference with
Shadow Dude gives you a higher rate than during the 1930”s
Depression ).
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The mental state that
rewards remaining urban. I can “prove” to you that I am right,
about the imminent danger of the collapse of civilization, but you'll
ignore me because every day you are better off than country folk. To
be fair, I don't listen to people trying to prove to me how dangerous
the countryside is either, as my mind is made up. Logic is about the
furthest state from our reality as you can get. No matter how we lie
to ourselves, we are emotional beings. We only confirmation bias.
The only thing we can do is try to see a little clearer how
irrational we are, and try to change that. Don't EVER kid yourself
how clear you are seeing reality. NONE of us do. You can only see
better how you are not seeing reality.
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Make sense? Probably
not. Don't worry, continued tomorrow.
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